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Welcome to the reporting center for cross-boundary behavior

Howest is committed to providing a safe, respectful, and supportive study and work environment for everyone. The values of Howest guide us in how we treat one another. Cross-boundary behavior has no place in this.

Are you a student, staff member, or witness who is confronted with such behavior? Then you can turn to our reporting center for cross-boundary behavior. We listen to your story and support you in full confidentiality and respect for your choices.

Report cross-boundary behavior

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Wat is grensoverschrijdend gedrag?

What is cross-boundary behavior?

Cross-boundary behavior is any form of verbal, non-verbal, physical, or digital behavior that crosses personal, social, and/or professional boundaries. The behavior can evoke feelings of insecurity, intimidation, exclusion, and constitutes an attack on someone's integrity.

Certain behavior may feel transgressive to one person and acceptable to another. Everyone has their boundaries, and these must be respected.

The experience of cross-boundary behavior is often related to the severity and context of the behavior, how often it occurs, the relationship with the person involved, and the impact on a person's sense of safety and dignity.

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What can you do in a situation involving cross-boundary behavior?

Not every situation involving cross-boundary behavior feels the same. You always have the right to set your boundaries. Depending on how you experience the situation, you can respond differently.

Does the behavior cause irritation, doubt, or uncertainty, but you do not experience acute fear?

Then it may help to:

  • Write down your boundaries and how you experienced the situation. Reflect on the facts, your thoughts, and feelings.
  • Talk to the person (if it feels safe) and make your boundaries clear. Tips for discussing the behavior;
  • Seek support from those around you (friends, colleagues, teachers).
  • Consult resources such as the tools on ‘grenswijs’ or tips you receive during group sessions on self-defense, assertiveness, etc. (only Dutch)
  • Seek support from professional counselors (CAW, JAC, STUVO (students) ,STAP (staff), etc.).
  • Report it to a reporting center if the behavior continues despite attempts to improve it. You can report it via this reporting center or via the Flemish Reporting Center.
  • Te melden bij een meldpunt wanneer het gedrag blijft voorkomen ongeacht de pogingen tot verbetering. Melden kan via reporting center of via het Vlaams Meldpunt.

E.g.: you receive a comment or joke that you find hurtful or inappropriate.
E.g.: Someone gets too close or does not respect your boundaries, but you do not feel directly threatened.

Be sure to ensure your own safety if you feel afraid, threatened, intimidated, or in danger.

It may help to:

  • Leave the situation or go to a place where other people are present.
  • In emergency situations, call 112 (or 101 for the police).
  • Seek immediate support from someone you trust: a friend, family member, colleague, manager, etc.
  • Seek professional help from internal or external services (STUVO (students), STAP (Staff), CAW, JAC, etc.)
  • Report it to this reporting center or via the Flemish Reporting Center.
  • File a complaint with the police.
Grensoverschrijdend gedrag

Steps when reporting cross-boundary behavior

1. Submit a report

Here you can submit a report

Your report will be dispatched to the designated confidential counselor for students or for staff.

2. Initial contact

Are you not reporting anonymously? Then a confidential counselor will contact you within ten days to schedule an appointment.

3. Conversation to explore the situation

The confidential counselor will listen to your story and what you have been through.

Together, you will look at what happened, how it has affected your well-being, and what you need.

4. Information and guidance

You will receive information about the possible steps you can take depending on your situation.

The informal and formal options will be explained.

5. Making choices and taking action

You decide what actions you want to take and what will be shared with others.

You will be guided through the chosen next steps.

6. Follow-up and care

After some time, the confidential counselor will check in with you to see how you are doing.

A follow-up meeting can be arranged at your request.

Who are the confidential counselors?

The confidential counselors are independent and confidential points of contact for students and staff who are dealing with cross-boundary behavior.

They offer a listening ear, provide information about possible next steps, and support you in making choices and taking action.

Confidential counselor staff

Confidential counselor staff

Confidential counselors students

Confidential counselors students

Frequently asked questions

The confidential counselors:

  • listen calmly to your story and think along with you;
  • inform you about possible next steps;
  • help you find your own strength and choices;
  • maintain an independent, impartial, and neutral position;
  • are bounded by professional secrecy and treat your question with complete confidentiality;
  • support you in taking action or take action with your express consent;
  • identify, where there are necessary, structural bottlenecks within the organization.

The confidential advisors cannot conduct investigations, take sides, impose sanctions, or provide legal assistance. They are a safe and discreet point of contact. Together, you explore what you need and how you can fulfill this need.

Below is an overview of the steps that you can expect:

  1. Report cross-boundary behavior
    You can report via the reporting form or directly to the confidential counselors for students or staff.
  2. Initial contact
    Within ten days of your report, a confidential counselor will contact you to schedule an exploratory meeting.
  3. Meeting to explore the situation
    During this meeting, you can tell your story in complete confidentiality: what happened, how you experienced it, and what thoughts and feelings you have. Together with the confidential counselor, you will discuss what you need and what steps can be taken.
  4. Possible actions (always at your request)
    • Informal options: the focus here is on offering support, establishing safety, and, if desired, achieving recovery.
      • Opvang en advies: de vertrouwenspersoon kan maximum 3 persoonlijke gesprekken met je inplannen om te luisteren naar je verhaal. De vertrouwenspersoon kan gericht advies geven en doorverwezen naar professionele hulpverlening.
      • Interventie met een derde: als je ermee instemt, kan een derde partij betrokken waaraan de situatie wordt gesignaleerd en wordt bekeken welke rol de derde partij hierin kan opnemen. (bv: diensthoofd, docent, stagebegeleider, opleidingsmanager, opleidingsdirecteur of personeelsdienst betrokken worden.)
      • Signaalfunctie: als je dat wenst, kan de vertrouwenspersoon mogelijke structurele knelpunten binnen het beleid of de werking signaleren.
      • Herstelgesprek of bemiddeling: als alle partijen hiermee instemmen kan de vertrouwenspersoon optreden als neutrale partij tijdens een herstel- of bemiddelingsgesprek. De vertrouwenspersoon bereidt dat gesprek samen met jou voor zodat het gesprek voldoende veilig aanvoelt.
    • Referral and support for formal procedures: if you want an investigation to determine what sanctions are appropriate, you can choose to initiate a formal procedure (e.g., disciplinary proceedings or involving the police). The confidential counselors can explain, support, and prepare you for the initiation of such a procedure.
  5. Follow-up and care
    After a certain period of time, the confidential counselor will check in with you to see how you are doing and how the situation has evolved. If you wish, you can accept the proposal for a follow-up meeting.

Everything is done confidentially and with your consent. You decide what is shared and which route you want to follow.

  • Ombudsman
    The point of contact for problems within the study context, such as complaints or disputes about the study career, the legal position of the student, or actions and study related situations that are perceived as unfair. This may concern, for example, exams, lessons, study cards, or the application of the education and examination regulations. The ombudsperson mediates in conflicts between students and staff members and monitors correct treatment within the program.
  • Confidential counselor
    The reporting center for cross-boundary behavior is there for situations in which the personal boundaries of a student or staff member are crossed (such as verbal or physical violence, harassment, unwanted sexual behavior, discrimination, stalking, racism, unjustified accusations, etc.).

As the person reporting the incident, you remain the spokesperson for your own story and are always in control of your choices.

The confidential counselor supports you in taking the desired next steps. Everything is done confidentially and with your consent.

The possible actions you can take as a reporter are:

Informal options

The focus here is on offering support, establishing safety, and, if desired, achieving recovery.

  • Support and advice: the confidential counselor can schedule a maximum of three personal meetings with you to listen to your story. The confidential counselor can provide specific advice and refer you to professional help.
  • Intervention with a third party: if you agree, a third party can be involved to whom the situation is reported and whose role in the matter can be assessed. (E.g., the head of department, teacher, internship supervisor, course manager, director, or human resources department can be involved.)
  • Signaling function: if you wish, the confidential counselor can signal possible structural bottlenecks within the policy or operation.
  • Mediation or reconciliation meeting: if all parties agree, the confidential counselor can act as a neutral party during a reconciliation or mediation meeting. The confidential counselor will prepare for this meeting together with you so that it feels sufficiently safe.

Referral and support for formal procedures

If you want an investigation to determine what sanctions are appropriate, you can choose to initiate formal proceedings (e.g., disciplinary proceedings or involving the police).

The confidential advisor can explain the process, support you, and prepare you for the start of such proceedings.

Interesting numbers and services

Emergency numbers

Services

Melding maken

Do you wish to testify anonymously?
Indien je anoniem grensoverschrijdend gedrag wenst te melden neemt een vertrouwenspersoon je verhaal met zorg en aandacht door. De registratie van je melding wordt meegenomen in onze toekomstige preventieve acties en eventuele beleidsaanpassingen. Om je anonimiteit te bewaren, kan er geen contact opgenomen worden met jou. Als je toch graag in gesprek gaat met een vertrouwenspersoon, ben je steeds welkom! Ook dan blijf je het beslissingsrecht behouden over wat er verder met je verhaal gebeurt.